nintendogamegirl:

when you allow a man to talk about himself he’ll call you real, genuine, earnest… he’ll start to develop feelings for you simply based off the fact that you give him space to brag about his accomplishments and relieve himself of mental durress… he develops feelings for you bc you’re like a sponge to him that he can fill w/ his worries and ego and squeeze out when he pleases. but as soon as you begin to talk about yourself or try to claim space for yourself is when the lack of attraction sets in! when you come into your own that’s when they back off. when you feel, they freeze. you move, they refuse to budge. that is just so wild